Saturday, November 15, 2008

What is "Love"?

What is love?
There have no any right answers for u (i'm not the expert in love,it just my opinion only) because if have the right answer why still have many people sad , break up and even die for love.But,have a lot of people said that love is blind.Besides,in this world still have other things that have no any answers,all just judge and determine by ur ownself only.If u think it right then right,if wrong then wrong.This is because it is human nature.Everyone has his/her own belief.

Ok,lets take an example:If one of ur frenz hurt u badly,will u still frenz with him/her?It just depend on u only because the final decision is made by u not me.

For me,it just depend my mood at that time if that time i'm in good mood,i think i will continue frenz with them(because one more frenz better than one more enemy) but at the same the time,u hardly get my trust on u again.Hor,if that time i'm in bad mood then u will transparent in front of me and i not even care about u even u died.(Not say i'm bad,me also a human being and it happen for all people.)But,i'm in bad mood is very very very seldom one(if not can ask those my frenz around me) almost everytime i happy if not just sleep at there or silent only(daydreaming). "Life laughs at you when you are unhappy... Life smiles at you when you are happy... Life salutes you when you make others happy..."

Now u know ur personality edi but not all of it.Lets go back to topic,love can separate into many types such as puppy love,family love and much more out there.Not just those "I love U" or "U love Me" only.So,if u lost the one that u love,please dont do something stupid like go for die.This is because that not worth,if u die they just sad for a while only not forever in their life.Besides,still have many people care about u like ur family and ur frenz.If u just die like this,u will hurt ur family and somemore the one that loved u for quite a long time but u didn't notice that.So,if u want make them regret,u must live more better and happier than them.Then,that's are the best thing that u do in ur life.

Lets take another example:
If u in love with someone,will u make or want him/her happy everytime?Try think 1st before answer this question.I'm sure with that u all answer is yes because u just think only and will not take action.If not,why so many girls sad and angry with their bf?Think and take action is different one,so think carefully.(I'm not say all the guys in this world because still got good guys in this world.)

For me,i just try my best to make the one i loved happy all the time because if u love him/her,u want him/her happy all the time and will not want him/her sad all the time.Somemore,when they sad,u always be there for him/her.(everytime i will be there when my frenz sad especially girls(^^,).So,for those close to me even just know me in a short period will know thats.)Not i'm a good guy,i'm just helping and caring my frenz only.

Now,is true love turn.True Love?Is True Love exist?Can it happen in our life?Well,i think it will happen in our life because still have people will love the one that they loved until the one notice them that they are the only one who love them all the time.Besides,they are not just play play only.Other than that,have true love without sex?Yes,if u have watch this korean comedy movie"Sex is Zero" then u will know how true love without sex.Is sex important to u all???Then,just depend on u only.I cant do anything to u.

Futhermore,is marriage important?Is marriage really can maintain the love forever?If not,why nowadays can see a lot of people divorce after married for a few years.For me, depend on the other one only.Marriage just give the other one a name and a prove that This is because i had read a newspaper(i seldom read newspaper and if i read those reading stuffs i will remember clearly so i lazy read books or newspapers one.)Some people said that marriage not so important because if both love each other no need care about that paper to prove or determine for their love and that just a paper only cant determine anything in our life.The thing that want us to concern is our heart if his/her heart not with u even married also can divorce after sign the paper.

Another example here which will discuss all the time among us:
When a guy with pretty girl or a girl with a handsome guy,sometimes u look at them like not matching to each other or u think will that why a good girl choose a bad guy not u or other than this.Then,u will think the other way edi.U will think why bad guy can with a pretty girl but u only can be frenz,is ur background not good as him or u will think u not bad enough,want be a bad guy?Actually,just be yourself only.Don't compare yourself with anyone in this world,if you compare,you are insulting yourself.At last,u will win them because u love him/her more than him/her chosen one.Somemore,he/she will finally know u is the one who truly love him/her.
What i want to say is find the one that u love is very easy but if u want to find the one who love u very much is very hard.Sound familiar rite?I get this idea from a drama series which HK Drama Series named"Moonlight Resonance".(This drama really nice for all nowadays,i have repeated watched more than 10 times edi.(^^,) Besides,all is faith edi.U and ur mr./mrs. right will appear in ur life at the right time.I have heard from my frenz and others people which is "before meet the mr.right in ur life,u will meet the wrong guys 1st".


One more thing,i think all people will do this which is compete with the other one to get the love one("spanar" eveytime we said like that).For me,if i see the person treat the one that i love good and make her happy all the time then i will out.Not because i lose is because if the one u loved happy, u will happy too even not with you.This is because he/she love him/her not u and they happy then we can relief edi.Besides,maybe mr.right is him not u and even with u,can u promise that 100% wont make her cried.So,let them try to live with each other not everytime want to be the winner.If they cant,then get her back to u and treat them nicely.

But,still have many things that are unexpected and unpredictable in our life.These uncertainties will happen in our life from time to time,this is called as life.

Lastly,i want to say is
"Never break four things in your life-Trust,Promise,Relation & Heart because when they break they don't make noise but pains a lot" by Charles.Futhermore,the best thing in our life is our memories because when u old or when have freetime, u will recall back all those memories(sweet ,happy memories or even sad memories)then,u will laugh at urself how stupid u were. This normal for me edi because i get used edi.When u see me daydreaming or thinking something(besides my magic),then at that time i just recall back my memories and think the ways to improve myself.And sometimes if u see me,suddenly laugh by my ownself only is because i laugh at myself only(how stupid i am).

The most important that i want to tell to all boys and men,please treat ur loved one nicely,don't hurt them.Ok?


For all of the above,it just my opinion only.So,if make u angry then i'm here to say "Sorry" to u 1st.Then,please feel free to drop some comments even ur opinions here for sharing with others.

2 comments:

icywhinygnome said...

Walao....long time didn update, one shot write so much eh....

yihming said...

Hehe...since u tell me i din update for such a long time then i just write this lo.